September 18, 2006
Show Notes for Fetish Flame 26.0 - September 18, 2006 - BDSM, Part 2
We continue our conversation on BDSM with Selina Raven.
She introduces us to RACK - Risk-Aware Consensual Kink.
We touch upon edge play and triggers that can be set off during both physical and psychological play.
We list some of the activities that are part of BDSM play, but as Selina reminds us, you are only limited by your imagination when it comes to the types of play and what you can use when you are creating a scene.
She surprises us with what not to use when binding your partner, as well as some of the basics for picking out rope.
Listen in for some brief descriptions on spanking, flogging, electrical play, pinwheel, and so many more!
And because Selina is all about safety, she reminds us to practice, practice, practice before you turn that flogger onto to someone for the first time.
We will list the resources we mentioned on the show very soon. We invite everyone to share their own favorite BDSM resources here in the comments section.
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Fetish Flame 26.0 - September 18, 2006 - BDSM, Part 2
We continue our conversation on BDSM with Selina Raven.
We touch upon some of the activities that are part of BDSM play, but as Selina reminds us, you are only limited by your imagination when it comes to the types of play and what you can use when you are creating a scene.
Fetish Flame 26.0 - September 18, 2006 - BDSM, Part 2
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September 04, 2006
Show Notes for Fetish Flame 25.0 - September 4, 2006 - BDSM, Part 1
BDSM : Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism (or Sadomasochism)
Selina Raven joins us to talk about BDSM. She shares her knowledge of the history behind this alternative lifestyle, as well as her own experiences.
BDSM encompasses a lot of activities and mindsets. We talk about the roles of the top and the bottom, the dominant and the submissive, the sadist and the masochist. To some it's a lifestyle, to others it's a form of occasional play, and to some it's a spiritual practice.
Negotiation and communication are key elements in mastering any kind of relationship, especially BDSM, so we spend some time talking about the importance of BDSM activities being safe, sane, and consensual.
We finish Part 1 of this two-part conversation by defining what a safeword is and just why it is so crucial in every type of scene.
Stay tuned for Part 2, in which we dig deeper into the various kinds of play, equipment, and risks of S&M.
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Fetish Flame 25.0 - September 4, 2006 - BDSM, Part 1
Selina Raven joins us to talk about BDSM.
Fetish Flame 25.0 - September 4, 2006 - BDSM, Part 1
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August 16, 2006
Show Notes for Fetish Flame 23.0 - August 11, 2006 - Chanta Rose: Bondage for Sex
Chanta Rose is an incredibly beautiful and sexy bondage model and rigger, sex educator, webmaster, and now author of Bondage for Sex.
She joins us on the red couch for an intimate discussion of her book, her experiences with bondage, her websites, and the joys and perils of the Hitachi Magic Wand.
There's a momentary lapse into a conversation about Canon vs Nikon SLR cameras, but I quickly bring it back to the titillating topic at hand.
We can't say enough about her book (Atticus even gushes): incredibly sexy photos, well-detailed instructions on tying the knots, and down-to-earth writing. Which all lead to an amazing way to spend an evening with your partner.
Check out Chanta's websites:
Bondage Expert
Chanta's Bitches
And her husband's site:
Sex and Submission
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August 14, 2006
Fetish Flame 23.0 - August 11, 2006 - Chanta Rose: Bondage for Sex
Chanta Rose joins us to discuss her sexy new book, Bondage for Sex.
Fetish Flame 23.0 - August 11, 2006 - Chanta Rose Bondage for Sex
Posted by Nova at 06:47 AM