February 20, 2007
Fetish Flame 31.0 - February 19, 2007 - BDSM, Part 3 - Creating a Scene
Part 3 of a conversation on BDSM with Selina Raven. We touch upon the many facets of creating a scene: negotiation, preparation, what to do when things do not go the way you planned, aftercare, and so much more!
Fetish Flame 31.0 - February 19, 2007 - BDSM Part 3: Creating a scene
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September 18, 2006
Show Notes for Fetish Flame 26.0 - September 18, 2006 - BDSM, Part 2
We continue our conversation on BDSM with Selina Raven.
She introduces us to RACK - Risk-Aware Consensual Kink.
We touch upon edge play and triggers that can be set off during both physical and psychological play.
We list some of the activities that are part of BDSM play, but as Selina reminds us, you are only limited by your imagination when it comes to the types of play and what you can use when you are creating a scene.
She surprises us with what not to use when binding your partner, as well as some of the basics for picking out rope.
Listen in for some brief descriptions on spanking, flogging, electrical play, pinwheel, and so many more!
And because Selina is all about safety, she reminds us to practice, practice, practice before you turn that flogger onto to someone for the first time.
We will list the resources we mentioned on the show very soon. We invite everyone to share their own favorite BDSM resources here in the comments section.
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Fetish Flame 26.0 - September 18, 2006 - BDSM, Part 2
We continue our conversation on BDSM with Selina Raven.
We touch upon some of the activities that are part of BDSM play, but as Selina reminds us, you are only limited by your imagination when it comes to the types of play and what you can use when you are creating a scene.
Fetish Flame 26.0 - September 18, 2006 - BDSM, Part 2
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September 04, 2006
Show Notes for Fetish Flame 25.0 - September 4, 2006 - BDSM, Part 1
BDSM : Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, Sadism/Masochism (or Sadomasochism)
Selina Raven joins us to talk about BDSM. She shares her knowledge of the history behind this alternative lifestyle, as well as her own experiences.
BDSM encompasses a lot of activities and mindsets. We talk about the roles of the top and the bottom, the dominant and the submissive, the sadist and the masochist. To some it's a lifestyle, to others it's a form of occasional play, and to some it's a spiritual practice.
Negotiation and communication are key elements in mastering any kind of relationship, especially BDSM, so we spend some time talking about the importance of BDSM activities being safe, sane, and consensual.
We finish Part 1 of this two-part conversation by defining what a safeword is and just why it is so crucial in every type of scene.
Stay tuned for Part 2, in which we dig deeper into the various kinds of play, equipment, and risks of S&M.
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Fetish Flame 25.0 - September 4, 2006 - BDSM, Part 1
Selina Raven joins us to talk about BDSM.
Fetish Flame 25.0 - September 4, 2006 - BDSM, Part 1
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May 22, 2006
Show Notes for Fetish Flame 19.0 - May 21, 2006 - Interview with Bridgett Harrington, Part One
This is the first of two shows with Bridgett Harrington. She wears many hats (corsets, costumes, etc.), and there isn't much she hasn't experienced or isn't willing to try. Check out her other sites: RopeLover, BlackBookArt.
This show focuses on her entrance into the BDSM community and the fun of wet and messy (WAM) play/sploshing.
Bridgett began to explore her sexuality at a very young age, and she entered into the BDSM community just a few years later. With very few limitations, she has dabbled in many areas of the scene. She selflessly shares her personal journey and the dangers of lack of education and guidance, along with with inexperience and innocence.
Then she gets down and dirty on WAM fetish. Wait until you hear her describe milk pouring down the body...it's just so...um....well, why don't you listen and hear it for yourself.
Note: If you are a regular subscriber to Bridgett's site, she will fulfill specific requests for images that you may want to see. So if you have a fetish that is so unique you are not finding what you want on the web, this could be your answer.
Stay tuned for part two, in which Bridgett answers our questions about a fetish we really didn't understand: clowns.
Other great WAM resources [Thank you, Yekim & Allie!]:
Ultimate Messy Directory
iWAM Guide (and check out methylcellulose)
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