Fetish Flame

Posted by: Punky at May 29, 2005 06:45 AM

Not sure what feedback to give you off the bat, though I love the concept.

Some of the things which interest me:

M/F role playing and reversal. Strap-ons, dressing up, kissing, licking, pegging, really making it an out-of-the-world experience. Experiencing the other side of sex that isn't testosterone driven.

I queried amongst members of the Poly-Bi-Girls in regard to such things:

-Have you ever done it?
-Do you consider it a turn-on or -off? Is it better/worse/the same as w/ a woman?
-If you've ever done it with a guy, is there any aspect to it that let's you explore alternate sexual dimensions?
-Is there any dominance/submission aspect of it to you, either in experience or in your perception of it? Is there any androgynous aspect to it for you?
-Are you aware of the sensitivity of the anus (also knowns as the "ass-pussy")? Are you aware of it in some guys?
-Would a guy that likes it in the ass make you think he was in the closet about being gay or bi? Would you understand a heteroandrogynous guy that likes it?
-Would you ever consider fulfilling a fantasy involving using a strap-on on a guy? Would you consider photographing it, using costumes and other toys? Would you like to fuck a guy in drag? With other women in a sordid lipstick lesbian fantasy?

These and more questions nag at my somewhat androgynous (yet not so-much bisexual) psyche and it would be nice to see what other think about such things... after we got over the "oh, your just trying to pick up babes here" discussions, many on the Poly-Bi Girls tribe made thoughtful postings.

I think it really calls into question our labels about sexuality. I think there is room for all identities, really, and I think it is up to an individual what exactly and how one wishes or is inspired to express oneself on an erotic or erogenous level. I am someone who enjoys and encourages the feminine within the masculine, and I think that is something unique and rare in today's somewhat retarded cultural milieu.

Hence, my questions are seeking an answer from those amongst a generally enlighted female population and I wonder, as a "hetero-androgynous", full-blooded male, to what degree, if applicable, this is validated at all in the female erotic imagination.

Posted by: Northern Boy at June 5, 2005 06:38 AM

Hey,
Great podcast!!!

Just a suggestion of a topic of a show that being exploring medical fetishes.

Cheers,
NB

Posted by: endless at June 27, 2005 07:51 PM

Hi! Just really enjoyed the podcasts, esp as someone who is not actively involved in the scene. The thing that I like the most is the tone of the broadcasts, informative and inclusive. Im not sure I would do the things that you talk about but I like the way that they are dealt with. Especially in a world with so much sex and yet so little sensible discussion about it. Thank you :)

Posted by: erin at July 4, 2005 12:30 PM

Liked the shows, listened to 0-0.4, keep up the good work. One of the topics you might consider is how to find that special perverted someone, because I am finding it particularly hard, and most of my kinky friends say the same.

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